Prayer to avoid anger and slander against background of a snake

Another timely prayer from the ravberland.com site

Heads up, they are putting together an A-Z index of prayers written by Rabbi Eliezer Berland over on the site, HERE.

Each week, they are trying to put a few more English translations of the Rav’s prayers up, because a little while back the Rav said that very big things, spiritually, depend on more of these prayers getting out into the world.

Today, they just put up a new prayer to recite if you want to avoid getting angry, or pulled into slandering other Jews – which is just so easy to do, with the evil internet.

It spoke to me a lot, so I’m replicating it below:

Prayer to avoid anger and slander against background of a snake

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Also, as I promised I would do at the end of this post, I’ve written out the first part of the sources from the Gemara Tractate Sanhedrin 97b. I thought it was a very good resource to share widely, so I’ve posted it up on my blog over the ravberland site HERE.

If you can’t be bothered to read the whole thing, this is a very brief summary of what it says:

Summing up the discussion between Rabbi Eliezer and Rabbi Yehoshua in Sanhedrin 97b:

Rabbi Eliezer is arguing that the Jewish people have to make real, self-motivated teshuva for the geula to come, and so Hashem will wait as long as it takes for this to happen (like maybe, even another 200 years….)

Rabbi Yehoshua is arguing that there is a ‘fixed’ time for the geula, or end of days, to occur, and if the Jewish people haven’t made the necessary teshuva by that point Hashem will bring massive tribulations to the world to ‘force’ them to repent ahead of the deadline for geula. Whoever makes it through these tribulations will then make it to geula and Zion, i.e. Israel.

Rabbi Eliezer tries to argue, but eventually he concedes that Rabbi Yehoshua is correct.

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Are Chazal also ‘scaremongering?”

That is the question.

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UPDATE:

A comment from Orna prompted this response. After I wrote it, I thought I should actually stick it up as an addendum to this post. Enough with all the pettiness and machloket, already! Are all of us so ‘fixed’ we have nothing better to do than keep pointing out issues in other people? The whole world is just a mirror. Whenever we’re slagging someone else off, some other group of Jews off, we’re really just talking about ourselves.

Who cares what group of Jews Moshiach ‘belongs’ to, as long as he just shows up already? Tzaddikim are not football teams, that you can only support one side. ALL our Tzaddikim are beloved and valuable. BH, Rabbi Berland will last the distance and be able to make the jump from ‘hezkat Moshiach’ to the full thing.

If he doesn’t manage to rebuild the temple and ingather all the exiles – then he will be just the potential Moshiach of the generation. That’s all! No big deal. No need for all this crazy hysteria. Until the temple is rebuilt, no-one can say with 100% certainty who the Moshiach was.

All we know is that he’ll be the leader of the generation, and he can’t come back from the dead. Apart from that, none of us are any wiser. In the meantime, I think Rabbi Berland has the best shot of being Moshiach in our generation, and it’s no sin – at all! – to say that and publicize it.

All these people talking about ‘false messiahs’ – it’s all just a reflection of their own issues, their own problems. May God help us all to find the inner peace we need to stop turning Moshiach into some sort of ridiculous competition.

We are surrounded on all sides by people who hate us. If even we observant Jews are letting the crazy nutjobs in our midst stir trouble between us all the time, to prevent us from sticking together, what hope is there, really, of getting geula the sweet way?

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Orna, the more I think about all this, the more I think it’s just a ‘plan’ from the Sitra Achra to keep Jews at each other’s throats. There are always questions around the biggest Tzaddikim, that’s just how it is. They are operating in a realm that is far, far above what us mere mortals can grasp. The more honest amongst us will admit that.

I’m personally very uncomfortably with any suggestion that a Beit HaMikdash could be anywhere except Jerusalem. However, I’m not going to write off a whole bunch of Jews who believe that it could be in New York, even though I totally disagree with that idea myself.

In the Gemara, we see time and time again how the Tannaim had massive disagreements with each other about some very important issues. We can disagree about all these things without going at each other’s throats and starting to say other Jews aren’t ‘kosher’, or aren’t ‘Jewish enough’.

Who are we to judge? We can’t see inside people’s neshamas to know what’s really going on.

In the Gemara (Tractate Ketubot 103a), the students of Rebbe Yehuda HaNasi the Prince were so upset at his death, they made a decree that anyone who says that Rebbe Yehuda was dead should be stabbed with a knife:

“It is related that on the day that Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi died, the Sages decreed a fast, and begged for divine mercy so that he would not die. And they said: Anyone who says that Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi has died will be stabbed with a sword.”

That same Tractate explains how Yehuda HaNasi used to come back to his home for Shabbat AFTER HE DIED, to make kiddush with his family:

“The Gemara explains: Every Shabbat eve, even after his passing, Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi would come to his house as he had done during his lifetime, and he therefore wished for everything to be set up as usual. The Gemara relates the following incident: It happened on a certain Shabbat eve that a neighbor came by and called and knocked at the door. His maidservant said to her: Be quiet, for Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi is sitting. When he heard his maidservant reveal his presence to the neighbor, he did not come again, so as not to cast aspersions on earlier righteous individuals who did not appear to their families following their death.”

I agree there’s some very important clarifications and distinctions that need to be brought out with all this.

Dead tzaddikim cannot be Moshiach, that’s what the Rambam ruled, and that’s the halacha we all follow.

At the same time, Tzaddikim are greater after their deaths than they are in their lifetime, and their souls are active in the world, and accessible, in some way to those of us left behind.

Christianity stole a lot of these – the deepest! – ideas in authentic yiddishkeit and warped them to their own ends. We need to clarify things so we can get them back into their right space, spiritually.

At the same time, after I started researching all this stuff with Chabad conversions being maligned and questioned, etc it made me very upset.

The people who led the charge against Chabad after the Rebbe died also had a very obvious agenda to ridicule and disparage chassidut generally, because it didn’t fit their unspiritual approach to yiddishkeit.

That’s why I brought this Gemara, to show that a lot of the attacks against Chabad have originated from ignorance of our Torah sources (at best…)

We can disagree with other Jews, without getting into personal attacks.

This isn’t directed specifically at you, btw, Orna, just this is what has flowed out of my finger tips as a result of your comment.

The true tzaddikim are all working together to bring geula the sweetest way possible, in ways the rest of us can’t even understand.

Our job is just to keep our mouths shut, work on overcoming our own bad middot and to give EVERY TZADDIK their due respect, regardless of whether he’s ‘our’ Tzaddik or not.

That’s part of what I like so much about Breslov. They respect every Torah sage out there, Litvak, Sephardi, Karlin – whatever it is.

The label doesn’t matter, just what’s in people’s hearts.

 

6 replies
    • Rivka Levy
      Rivka Levy says:

      Rachel, what’s the question?

      Rav Berland has insight that the rest of us just don’t have. It also doesn’t say in the Torah specifically that we can’t eat kangaroos….

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  1. Rivka Levy
    Rivka Levy says:

    Orna, the more I think about all this, the more I think it’s just a ‘plan’ from the Sitra Achra to keep Jews at each other’s throats. There are always questions around the biggest Tzaddikim, that’s just how it is. They are operating in a realm that is far, far above what us mere mortals can grasp. The more honest amongst us will admit that.

    I’m personally very uncomfortably with any suggestion that a Beit HaMikdash could be anywhere except Jerusalem. However, I’m not going to write off a whole bunch of Jews who believe that it could be in New York, even though I totally disagree with that idea myself.

    In the Gemara, we see time and time again how the Tannaim had massive disagreements with each other about some very important issues. We can disagree about all these things without going at each other’s throats and starting to say other Jews aren’t ‘kosher’, or aren’t ‘Jewish enough’.

    Who are we to judge? We can’t see inside people’s neshamas to know what’s really going on.

    In the Gemara (Tractate Ketubot 103a), the students of Rebbe Yehuda HaNasi the Prince were so upset at his death, they made a decree that anyone who says that Rebbe Yehuda was dead should be stabbed with a knife:

    “It is related that on the day that Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi died, the Sages decreed a fast, and begged for divine mercy so that he would not die. And they said: Anyone who says that Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi has died will be stabbed with a sword.”

    That same Tractate explains how Yehuda HaNasi used to come back to his home for Shabbat AFTER HE DIED, to make kiddush with his family:

    “The Gemara explains: Every Shabbat eve, even after his passing, Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi would come to his house as he had done during his lifetime, and he therefore wished for everything to be set up as usual. The Gemara relates the following incident: It happened on a certain Shabbat eve that a neighbor came by and called and knocked at the door. His maidservant said to her: Be quiet, for Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi is sitting. When he heard his maidservant reveal his presence to the neighbor, he did not come again, so as not to cast aspersions on earlier righteous individuals who did not appear to their families following their death.”

    I agree there’s some very important clarifications and distinctions that need to be brought out with all this. Dead tzaddikim cannot be Moshiach, that’s what the Rambam ruled.

    At the same time, Tzaddikim are greater after their deaths than they are in their lifetime, and the souls are active in the world, and accessible, in some way to those of us left behind.

    Christianity stole a lot of these – the deepest! – ideas in authentic yiddishkeit and warped them to their own ends. We need to clarify things so we can get them back into their right space, spiritually.

    At the same time, after I started researching all this stuff with Chabad conversions being maligned and questioned, etc it made me very upset. The people who led the charge against Chabad after the Rebbe died also had a very obvious agenda to ridicule and disparage chassidut generally, because it didn’t fit their unspiritual approach to yiddishkeit.

    That’s why I brought this Gemara, to show that a lot of the attacks against Chabad have originated from ignorance of our Torah sources (at best…)

    We can disagree with other Jews, without getting into personal attacks.

    This isn’t directed specifically at you, btw, Orna, just this is what has flowed out of my finger tips as a result of your comment.

    The true tzaddikim are all working together to bring geula the sweetest way possible, in ways the rest of us can’t even understand. Our job is just to keep our mouths shut, work on overcoming our own bad middot and to give EVERY TZADDIK their due respect, regardless of whether he’s ‘our’ Tzaddik or not.

    That’s part of what I like so much about Breslov. They respect every Torah sage out there, Litvak, Sephardi, Karlin – whatever it is. The label doesn’t matter, just what’s in people’s hearts.

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    • Rivka Levy
      Rivka Levy says:

      Orna, ‘rebuke’ doesn’t work on anyone in our generation.

      Praying for people, and seeing the good in them, and encouraging them, is the only way to go.

      Rebbe Nachman told us in Lesson 282 of Likutey Moharan that the only way to get people to Hashem is Azamra, to see the good. Once we know that even Tannaim, people on the level of Rebbe’s students, found it very hard to let go of their Rebbe, that gives us much more insight into what is going on here, and why.

      Is it right for people to still think a tzaddik who died three decades ago is going to come back as Moshiach? Nope.

      Is it that big a deal? Personally, I don’t think so. I used to think it was awful, terrible, atrocious, idol worship and all the rest, but once I got my own ego and need to be ‘right’ and ‘superior’ at someone else’s expense out of the way, and once I also accepted that Chabad do some awesome, tremendous mitzvot in the world that NO ONE ELSE IS DOING, not Breslov, not anyone, I started to realise that in so many ways, it’s a red herring.

      So, they have a mistaken idea that the Moshiach can be reincarnated. We all make mistakes! We all have funny ideas! Sooner or later, as this process continues, they will wake up.

      There are plenty of Jews stuck in galut who don’t think the Rebbe is Moshiach, and who are a million miles away from a kosher lifestyle and Hashem. Why make such a big deal out of some misguided souls in Chabad?

      There are misguided souls in every stream of yiddishkeit today. Breslov also has a ‘lunatic fringe’ of people who wrongly believe the Saba is the Moshiach. Every group of Jews today has its meshuggas, it’s problems. We are all crazy, all flawed.

      Why keep harping on other people’s problems at this stage? There are consequences for everyone. The consequence of believing that geula begins in New York may be that you miss out on geula in Israel. Maybe that’s the tikun for that person, who knows?

      Is it sad for them? Yup. But do I have to keep going on and on about it? Nope. It just causes bad blood and division. If that person does mitzvot, they will still get olam haba, they will still get eternal life, even if they aren’t in Israel.

      Praying for people and understanding where they’re coming from – without getting pulled into their meshuggas – is the name of the game right now.

      Just to reiterate, whatever it is we’re pointing out in other Jews, it’s just something WE need to work on. We project our own problems on other people. That’s why it’s so interesting to read other people’s rants – it says far more about them than it does about others.

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      • Rivka Levy
        Rivka Levy says:

        Orna, I hear it’s painful. But it’s not fair to blame Chabad for keeping other people in chutz l’aretz. Everyone has free choice. And there are also a lot of Chabad people who have moved to Israel.

        Global statements and generalisations aren’t helping anyone. Again, we don’t know what’s in someone else’s heart. Rabbi Tzvi Aryeh Rosenfeld was a Breslov rabbi of the last generation, in America. He really wanted to move to Israel, but they kept telling him to stay and teach Torah to more Jews there.

        In the end, he only moved to Israel the last year of his life, when he was terminally ill. I’m not making excuses for anyone in chul, everyone has to choose their own path and deal with the consequences of it. What I’m saying is that the best route for us to get everyone ‘home’ and to get to the next part of geula is to see the good in our fellow Jews wherever possible, especially if they are shomer mitzvot, without fooling ourselves about the truly evil people out there.

        If the ‘good’ Jews would stop being so partisan and focus only on MIDDOT, we’d quickly smoke out the horrible Jews on all sides of the equation who are the ones dividing us, causing machloket, and using our arguments as a diversion to cover their tracks.

        There is so much bad that needs challenging. We need to focus on what’s really ‘bad’ not all this nitpicking about stuff that really is not a big deal. Sending you love, Orna.

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      • Rivka Levy
        Rivka Levy says:

        It’s very easy to hurt other people via email and internet and social media. I’m sure we all do it all the time, even if we don’t think that we do. I’m sure I do it all the time, too.

        Maybe, can we make some sort of agreement that all of us, across all the blogs we visit and comment on, will stop trying to pull down Jews with different opinions as a knee-jerk reaction to make ourselves feel better?

        I know we’ll all see huge blessings, if we can manage to start doing that. I’ve wasted so much of my own time nursing hurts inflicted by psychos with a keyboard. There’s a lot of things we need to work together on, a lot of strength we need to gain from each other.

        Maybe, it really is time for us all to stop trying to score points and waste so much time being angry and self-righteous about other people’s meshuggas, and to just try to understand more, forgive and let go.

        All of us have our hurts we are nursing behind the scenes. And more often than not, that is why we lash out at others.

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